Khashiyar Rahman

قال الله وَخَشِىَ ٱلرَّحْمَـٰنَ بِٱلْغَيْبِ فَبَشِّرْهُ بِمَغْفِرَةٍ وَأَجْرٍ كَرِيمٍ لِمَاذَا خَشْيَةُ اَلرَّحْمَنِ عِنْدَمَا يَكُونُ اَللَّهُ هُوَ اَلرَّحْمَنُ؟ تَتِمُّ تَرْجَمَةُ خَشْيَةِ اَللَّهِ بِخَوْفِ اَللَّهِ، اَلْخَوْفُ هُوَ عَاطِفَةٌ سَلْبِيَّةٌ، نَحْنُ نَكْرَهُ مَا نَخَافُهُ، وَلَكِنَّ اَللَّهَ قَالَ: إِنَّ اَلْمُؤْمِنِينَ يُحِبُّونَهُ أَكْثَرَ مِنْ أَيِّ شَيْءٍ آخَرَ. اَللَّهُ ذَكَرَ صِفَةً اَلْمُؤْمِنِينَ وَقَالَ – وَٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوٓا۟ أَشَدُّ حُبًّا لِّلَّهِكَيْفَ نَفْهَمُ اَلْعَلَاقَةَ بَيْنَ اَلْخَشْيَةِ وَالْحُبِّ؟ لَيْسَ خَوْفُ اَللَّهِ بَلْ هُوَ خَوْفُ إِغْضَابِ مِنْ نُحِبُّ أَكْثَرَ – فَكُلَّمَا أَحْبَبْنَا اَللَّهَ زَادَ خَوْفُنَا مِنْ غَضَبِهِ وَزَادَتْ خَشْيَتُنَا – وَاَللَّهُ اَلرَّحْمَنُ الرَّحِيمُ، رَحْمَتُهُ لَا تَنْقَطِعُ أَبَدًا، هُوَ اَلْأَكْثَرُ تَسَامُحًا وَغُفْرَانُهُ لَا يَنْقُصُ أَبَدًا. كَيْفَ نَزِيدُ حُبُّنَا لِلَّهِ؟ نَفْعَلُ ذَلِكَ بِالتَّفَكُّرِ في نِعَمِهْ. دَعَوْنَا نَفْعَلُ ذَلِكَ اَلْآنْ، لِنُفَكِّرْ بِصَمْتٍ فِي ثَلَاثِ نِعَمٍ مِنَ اَللَّهِ وَنَشْكُرُهُ عَلَيْهِمْ، اَلطَّرِيقَةُ هِيَ اَلتَّفْكِيرُ فِي كُلِّ نِعْمَةٍ وَالتَّفْكِيرُ فِي اَلْكَيْفِيَّةِ اَلَّتِي سَتَكُونُ عَلَيْهَا إِذَا فَقَدْنَا تِلْكَ اَلنِّعْمَةْ – قَالَ اَللَّهُ:

وَإِذْ تَأَذَّنَ رَبُّكُمْ لَئِن شَكَرْتُمْ لَأَزِيدَنَّكُمْ وَلَئِن كَفَرْتُمْ إِنَّ عَذَابِى لَشَدِيدٌ 

دَعُونَا نَجْعَلُ هَذِهِ عَادَةً وَنَفْعَلُ ذَلِكَ كُلَّ يَوْمٍ فَكِّرُوا بِثَلَاثِ نَعَمٍ مِنْ نِعَمِ اَللَّهِ عَلَيْنَا وَتَخَيَّلُوا اَلْحَيَاةَ بِدُونِهِمْ وَاحْمَدُو اَللَّهَ عَلَى كُلٍّ مِنْهُمْ بِالِاسْمِ، عِنْدَمَا تَفْعَلُ هَذَا سَتَجِدُ أَنَّ قَلْبَكَ يَمْتَلِئُ بِالِامْتِنَانِ وَالسَّعَادَةِ لِمَا أَعْطَاكَ اَللَّهُ، وَسَتَحْصُلُ عَلَى أَعْظَمِ ثَرْوَةٍ وَهِيَ اَلْقَنَاعَةُ، هَذَا هُوَ سِرُّ اَلسَّعَادَةِ، اَلسَّعَادَةُ لَيْسَتْ حِيَازَةَ اَلذَّهَبِ وَالْفِضَّةِ أَوْ اَلدُّولَارِ أَوْ اَلدِّينَارِ أَوْ اَلسَّيَّارَاتِ أَوْ اَلْمَنَازِلِ أَوْ اَلْمُمْتَلَكَاتِ،  اَلنَّاسُ اَلَّذِينَ لَدَيْهِمْ كُلُّ ذَلِكَ ومَا زَالُوا يَنْتَحِرُونَ، ولَكِنَّ صَحَابَةَ رَسُولِ اَللَّهِ صَلَّى اَللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ لَمْ يَكُنْ لَدَيْهِمْ مِنْ هَذَا وَلَكِنْ كَانَ لَدَيْهِمُ اَلْقَنَاعَةُ، كَانُوا سُعَدَاءَ وَسَاعَدُوا اَلْآخَرِينَ عَنْ أبي الْعَلَاءِ الحضرمي قَالَ – قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِنَّ اللهَ يَبْتَلِي عَبْدَهُ بِمَا أَعْطَاهُ فَمَنْ رَضِيَ بِمَا قَسَمَ اللهُ لَهُ بَارَكَ اللهُ لَهُ فِيهِ وَوَسَّعَهُ وَمَنْ لَمْ يَرْضَ لَمْ يُبَارِكْ لَهُ ]مسند أحمد بن حنبل[

 كُلُّ مَا يُعْطينا اللَّهُ تَعَالَى هوَ اخْتِبارٌ يَجِبُ أَنْ نَرُدَّ عَلَيْهُ بِالصَّبْرِ أَوْ  الشُّكْرِ وَفِي الحَالَتَيْنِ نَسْعَدُ بِمَا قَضَى، لِأَنَّ قَضَاؤَهُ دَليلٌ عَلَى أَنَّهُ اخْتَارَ لَنَا ذَلِكَ. مَاذَا يُمْكِنُنَا أَنْ نَقولَ عِنْدَمَا يَخْتارُ الرَّحْمَنُ شَيْئًا خِصِّيصًا لَنَا؟ وَلَكِنْ تَعَلَّمْنَا مِنْ ثَقَافَةِ اَلْيَوْمِ أَنَّ اَلسَّعَادَةَ تَكْمُنُ فِي اِمْتِلَاكِ اَلْأَشْيَاءِ. لَكِنَّ اَلسَّعَادَةَ فِي إِعْطَاءِ اَلْأَشْيَاءِ وَلَيْسَ فِي اِمْتِلَاكِهَا، اَلسَّعَادَةُ فِي مُسَاعَدَةِ اَلْآخَرِينَ، وَ فِي اَلنَّفَقَةِ فِي سَبِيلِ اَللَّهِ.

تُخْبِرُنَا ثَقَافَةُ اَلشَّيْطَانِ اَلْيَوْمَ أَنَّنَا إِذَا أَعْطَيْنَا، فَإِنَّنَا نَخْسَرُ، وَلَكِنَّ اَللَّهَ يُخْبِرُنَا أَنَّنَا إِنْ أَعْطَيْنَاهَا يَرُدُّهَا إِلَيْنَا وَيُعْطِينَا أَجْرًا – اَلسُّؤَالُ بِالنِّسْبَةِ لَنَا هُوَ مَنْ نُصَدِّقُ؟ عِنْدَمَا نَعْتَادُ أَنْ نَشْكُرَهُ وَنُنْفِقُ فِي سَبِيلِه،  فَإِنَّ اَللَّهَ يَمْلَأُ قُلُوبَنَا بِالْقَنَاعَةِ، يُزِيلُ كُلَّ اَلْخَوْفِ مِنْ اَلدُّنْيَا وَالْمَخْلُوقَاتِ  نُورُ اَللَّهِ يُنِيرُ قُلُوبَنَا، وَيَخْتَفِي كُلُّ ظَلَامِ اَلْحُزْنِ وَالْهَمِّ – قَالَ اَللَّهُ عَنْ هَؤُلَاءِ اَلَّذِينَ يُحِبُّونَ اَللَّهُ وَيَشْكُرُونَهُ وَيُطِيعُونَهُ عند موتهم

إِنَّ ٱلَّذِينَ قَالُوا۟ رَبُّنَا ٱللَّهُ ثُمَّ ٱسْتَقَـٰمُوا۟ تَتَنَزَّلُ عَلَيْهِمُ ٱلْمَلَـٰٓئِكَةُ أَلَّا تَخَافُوا۟ وَلَا تَحْزَنُوا۟ وَأَبْشِرُوا۟ بِٱلْجَنَّةِ ٱلَّتِى كُنتُمْ تُوعَدُونَ 

نَحْنُ أَوْلِيَآؤُكُمْ فِى ٱلْحَيَوٰةِ ٱلدُّنْيَا وَفِى ٱلْـَٔاخِرَةِ وَلَكُمْ فِيهَا مَا تَشْتَهِىٓ أَنفُسُكُمْ وَلَكُمْ فِيهَا مَا تَدَّعُونَ – نُزُلًا مِّنْ غَفُورٍ رَّحِيمٍ 

تَخَيَّلْ ذَلِكَ اَلْيَوْمَ اَلَّذِي سَيَأْتِي لَنَا جَمِيعًا عِنْدَمَا نُوَاجِهَ اَلْمَلَائِكَةَ، مَلَائِكَةُ اَلْمَوْتِ وَسَيَقُولُ

  أَلَّا تَخَافُوا۟ وَلَا تَحْزَنُوا۟ وَأَبْشِرُوا۟ بِٱلْجَنَّةِ ٱلَّتِى كُنتُمْ تُوعَدُونَ

لَا خَوْفَ لِلْمُؤَمَّنِ أَعْظَمَ مِنْ اَلْخَوْفِ مِنْ مُوَاجَهَةِ اَللَّهِ يَوْمَ اَلْقِيَامَةِ، وَلَكِنَّ اَللَّهَ سَيُبَدِّدُ هَذَا اَلْخَوْفِ بِرِسَالَةِ مَلَائِكَتِهِ – وَلَكِنَّ اَلشَّرْطَ أَنْ نُطِيعَ اَللَّهَ وَرَسُولَهُ فِي كُلِّ جَوَانِبِ حَيَاتِنَا لَمِنْ يَخْشَى غَضَبَ اَلرَّحْمَنِ، و وَعْدَهُ بِرَحْمَتِهِ وَغُفْرَانِهِ وَقَالَ

وَخَشِىَ ٱلرَّحْمَـٰنَ بِٱلْغَيْبِ فَبَشِّرْهُ بِمَغْفِرَةٍ وَأَجْرٍ كَرِيمٍ

أَسْأَلُ اَللَّهُ أَنْ يَجْعَلَنَا مِنْ اَلصَّابِرِينَ وَالشَّاكِرِينَ وَالْقَانِتِينَ وَالْمُتَوَكِّلِينَ

وَخَشِىَ ٱلرَّحْمَـٰنَ بِٱلْغَيْبِ فَبَشِّرْهُ بِمَغْفِرَةٍ وَأَجْرٍ كَرِيمٍ

Allah said: Ya Seen 36: 11   and are in awe (and fear) of the Most Compassionate without seeing Him. So, give them good news of forgiveness and an honorable reward.What is the meaning of fearing Ar-Rahman when He is the Most Merciful, the Most Beneficent. The issue is translating Khashiyya as ‘fear’. Fear is a negative emotion. We hate the things we fear. But Allah said about the Believers:  وَٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوٓا۟ أَشَدُّ حُبًّا لِّلَّهِBaqara 2: 165   but the ˹true˺ believers love Allah more than anyone and anything

How do we understand the relationship between Khashiyya and Love? Khasiyya is not fear of Allah but fear of offending the One we love the most. How do we increase our love for Allah? Every day think of three things that Allah blessed you with and thank Him for them, by name. The way to do that is to look at each thing and imagine life without it. Then thank Allah because He did not deprive you of it but gave it to you as a gift. Do this every day. Make this a habit. Start your day with this and see how your heart will fill with gratitude towards Allah and your love of Allah will increase and you will be a much happier person than you are now. No matter how happy you may be, you will become happier. The truth is that happiness is not in the possession of things, positions or followers, or property or gold and silver or money. People who have all these things still commit suicide. But the Sahaba of Rasoolullah did not have any of these things but they were happy and helped others. That is because they had contentment. Contentment is the greatest wealth. Not anything material of this world. To be content is to be pleased with what Allah gave us.

عَنْ أبي الْعَلَاءِ الحضرمي قَالَ – قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِنَّ اللهَ يَبْتَلِي عَبْدَهُ بِمَا أَعْطَاهُ فَمَنْ رَضِيَ بِمَا قَسَمَ اللهُ لَهُ بَارَكَ اللهُ لَهُ فِيهِ وَوَسَّعَهُ وَمَنْ لَمْ يَرْضَ لَمْ يُبَارِكْ لَهُ    

Abu al-‘Ala’ Al-Hadrami (R) reported that Rasoolullah  said, “Verily, Allah will put His slave to trial in what He gives him. Whoever is content with what Allah has apportioned for him, then Allah will bless him in it and expand it. Whoever is not content, he will never be blessed in it.” [Hadith Sahih – Musnad Imam Ahmad]

The thing to understand is that everything is a trial, a test. Wealth, health, power, authority, spouse, children, and their opposite are all tests. Allah said that He created death and life to test who does the best deeds. There are two words, two attitudes, which we need to succeed in the tests of life. Sabr and Shukr (Patience and Gratitude). If you have it, you thank Allah. If you don’t, you have patience. In both cases we are happy with whatever He decreed because His Decree is evidence that He chose this for us. What can we say when Ar-Rahman chooses something especially for us?

When we get used to thanking Allah and spending in the way of Allah Allah fills our hearts with contentment and removes all fear of the world and creatures. Allah’s light illuminates our hearts and dispels all the darkness of sorrow and worry – Allah said about the end of those who love Allah, thank Him and obey Him.

إِنَّ ٱلَّذِينَ قَالُوا۟ رَبُّنَا ٱللَّهُ ثُمَّ ٱسْتَقَـٰمُوا۟ تَتَنَزَّلُ عَلَيْهِمُ ٱلْمَلَـٰٓئِكَةُ أَلَّا تَخَافُوا۟ وَلَا تَحْزَنُوا۟ وَأَبْشِرُوا۟ بِٱلْجَنَّةِ ٱلَّتِى كُنتُمْ تُوعَدُونَ 

نَحْنُ أَوْلِيَآؤُكُمْ فِى ٱلْحَيَوٰةِ ٱلدُّنْيَا وَفِى ٱلْـَٔاخِرَةِ وَلَكُمْ فِيهَا مَا تَشْتَهِىٓ أَنفُسُكُمْ وَلَكُمْ فِيهَا مَا تَدَّعُونَ  -نُزُلًا مِّنْ غَفُورٍ رَّحِيمٍ 

Fussilat 41:30-32   Surely those who say, “Our Rabb is Allah,” and then remain steadfast, the angels descend upon them, ˹saying,˺ “Do not fear, nor grieve. Rather, rejoice in the good news of Jannah, which you have been promised. We are your supporters in this worldly life and in the Hereafter. There you will have whatever your souls desire, and there you will have whatever you ask for: A welcome from the All-Forgiving, Most Merciful ˹Lord˺.”

Imagine that day which all of us will face when we meet the angels. Al-Malakul Mawth (the Angel of Death) and he will say to us, “Do not fear, nor grieve. Rather, rejoice in the good news of Jannah, which you have been promised.” May Allah decree this for every one of us.

There is no greater fear for the Believer than the fear of facing Allah on the Day of Resurrection. But for the one who fears the anger of Allah when he can’t see him, Allah will dispel this fear with the message of His angels – but the condition is that we obey Allah and His Messenger in all aspects of our lives. Love for Allah is expressed only through obedience to Him in the way (Sunnah) of Rasoolullah.

I ask Allah to make us among those who are patient, thankful, obedient, and have trust only on Allah.